Loneliness......the real truth behind it !!!

Well this post is regarding a topic which many people view and fear from their own perspectives. Actually its age which has an effect on the respective outlooks.But is loneliness really an issue to be thought and talked about so much. Well if you ask me I would say it has been my only trusted companion for the last 24 years on this planet.

I know many of you will be a little rustic or flabbergasted to read this line from me. But believe me I see no point in sitting back and cribbing at the state of loneliness. I agree at times we can't handle the sudden situational outburst of emotions in us......its the time when we seek someone who would be a consort......a shoulder on which we can rest and support ourselves and let the tides pass by. But what if we don't get such a person who would understand the gravity of the situation and react accordingly. One whose touch would be the buffer taking off all the stress and give a soothing effect to our mind. Should we just lay off on any person we find with a few words of consolation.....who seems to show nothing else but sympathy towards us???? The answer is NO!!!

I know many people have taken this stand of mine as my Arrogance. They feel I am stubborn enough not to accept people who sympathise with me......who just console me to accept the situations and happenings as a part of my destiny!!!! But .....I am not affected by the way others presume and define me. All these years of existence in this world has taught me a lot......maybe the Evolution Theory of Charles Darwin at its best..........

I have evolved from the naive and vulnerable species I was once......I have come in terms with this world and understood the reality of human nature. All these reasons contribute to my saying that Loneliness is not a Virtue....its a Bliss!!! Rather than getting the company of mindless chatterboxes its better to remain alone in solitude and seek out the divine relation with God. Someone who will alwayzz guide you on the right path and will hold you before you fall. Being lonely gives you the best oppurtunity to Criticise yourself.......and as the saying goes Criticism is the way to Success. You are in a better position to evaluate and realise your faults and take learnings from them. Being lonely gives you an insight to many things which would otherwise had slipped out of your notice. Being lonely gives you a chance to heal and recuperate better.....learn new activities an enhance your skill levels.It gives you the strength to be bold enough to take tough decisions and lowers your dependence level on others. It gives you the power to think deeply.......out of which arises the power to think wisely as your thoughts will be solely responsible for your upliftment or downfall.

Finally to conclude this article I would say nonetheless we all need someone.....someone special in life to share and to have a feeling of togetherness but......until we find that right person....the one we can TRUST.....the one we can BELIEVE in.....its better to be the best of pals with our loneliness as in any case......it will never TREACHEROUS nor will it BETRAY or INFLICT PAINS upon us.......!!!!